Looking out my window at the unbelievable amount of snow that fell over the past 24 hours makes me long for the sunshine in Costa Rica. My sister, brother, nephew, and I left on Thanksgiving Monday (in Canada it's celebrated in October) for a week of relaxation and sun. We arrived in the morning there with the time change and were sipping on a Purple Haze before noon at the Planet Hollywood hotel/resort located on the Papagayo Peninsula in the Guanacaste.
Traveling on eMpTy
Monday, 9 November 2026
Costa Rica (2019)
Looking out my window at the unbelievable amount of snow that fell over the past 24 hours makes me long for the sunshine in Costa Rica. My sister, brother, nephew, and I left on Thanksgiving Monday (in Canada it's celebrated in October) for a week of relaxation and sun. We arrived in the morning there with the time change and were sipping on a Purple Haze before noon at the Planet Hollywood hotel/resort located on the Papagayo Peninsula in the Guanacaste.
WIFF 2026
The Windsor International Film Festival ran from October 29 to November 8, showing 232 films from 55 countries at three different theatres in the downtown core: the Chrysler Theatre, the Capitol Theatre, and the University of Windsor Armouries.
One of the things I love most about WIFF is the opportunity to see films I might not otherwise discover. From entertaining dramas to thought-provoking documentaries, WIFF always offers something different.
This year I managed to see six films, and each brought something unique to the screen.
After the deaths of Mihai’s parents, Mihai (Sebastian Stan) and Lisbeth Gheorghiu (Renate Reinsve) leave everything behind in Romania and move with their children to a remote village in Norway, hoping to rebuild their lives near Lisbeth’s family. There, they grow close to their neighbours, the Halbergs, whose warmth offers the promise of a fresh start. But the fragile peace begins to unravel when the Gheorghius’ young daughter, Elia, arrives at school covered in bruises.
This film took me outside my usual movie-going comfort zone and shows different styles of filmmaking and storytelling. The subtitles added to the experience, as well as the length (almost 2 1/2 hours!). Definitely a film that felt true to the WIFF experience.
CASTLE IN THE GROUND
This subject is both important and heartbreaking. It's a powerful reminder of the devastating impact addiction can have on individuals, their families, and the community. A difficult subject, but certainly one worth exploring through film.
This fascinating documentary about the making of the iconic film Goodfellas was a real treat (and a bonus—my brother Gerry got free tickets!). To make the experience even more special, actress Lorraine Bracco was there, along with a fellow actress and executive producers connected to the movie. Having a Q & A with people who were actually part of the film, sharing their experiences, made this a memorable screening.
CODE OF MISCONDUCT
It started with a text.
Sent in the early morning hours after a Hockey Canada gala in London, Ontario, the message lands in a group chat shared by members of the 2018 Canadian World Junior hockey team. What begins as a consensual encounter between a young woman and one player shifts, altering the course of the night and the lives of those involved. Years later, five former members of that team stand trial in a London courtroom, where sharply different accounts collide and a country begins to question the sport it holds closest to its identity.
A really good documentary that felt particularly close to home, as the events took place in London, Ontario. Having some familiarity with the story as it was covered in the news made watching this especially interesting. It's fascinating to see a story you've followed in the headlines explored in greater depth through documentary filmmaking.
A LONG WINTER
After his mother disappears during the first blizzard of the season, a young man refuses to give up hope as one long Colorado winter reshapes his relationship with his father and his understanding of the man he is becoming.
Another film with a great cast and some compelling storytelling. I took my nephew Zach to this film, and it was his first WIFF experience. We both enjoyed it, although the ending was a bit ambiguous, leaving you to decide for yourself what exactly happened. Sometimes those are the films that stay with you a little longer.
THE ONLY LIVING PICKPOCKET IN NEW YORK
Harry Lehman (John Turturro) is an aging pickpocket who plies his trade with ever-diminishing returns in a drastically changed New York. Wallets stuffed with cash have been replaced by easily cancelled credit cards, and Harry struggles to make ends meet as he cares for his disabled wife, Rosie. When he unwittingly purloins and fences a valuable USB stick, Harry finds himself in a race against time to return the loot or face the rage of a vengeful crime family.
For my final WIFF film, my friend Kary and I went to see this gem. We've gone on the final day of WIFF for the past 4 years. This film really delivered for us, with a terrific cast and excellent acting, and kept us thoroughly entertained.
Six films, six very different experiences. Some were entertaining, some challenged me, some were heartbreaking, and one provided a truly memorable behind-the-scenes experience.
That's what I enjoy about WIFF. You never quite know what you're going to get. You might discover a film you wouldn't normally choose, learn something new, or find yourself thinking about a story long after the credits roll. WIFF provides a great opportunity to celebrate film, storytelling, and the wonderful experience of seeing movies together.
~MT
Thursday, 22 October 2026
Barbados
Stepping out from the airport into the warm tropical air, greeted by staff from Sandals to arrange our transport, and feeling the sun on our faces had us eager to get to the resort and change into bathing suits and flip flops.
One of the best parts of a resort vacation is not having to plan every minute of the day. Jennie was always up by 7 a.m. to reserve the best seats at the pool. Most days, we were the only ones out in the pool for the first couple of hours. Once the bars opened at 10, more people emerged. The atmosphere would start to pick up around that time with the water aerobics and music blaring. We heard Rihana's "We Found Love" more times than I can count, but I didn't mind. She is a national hero of Barbados after all.
I read 3 books during the week. Jennie finished one and started on a second (more than usual for her). The biggest decisions we had to make during the day were what to drink, where to eat, and what time to get ready for dinner. Something about the tropical scenery makes it easy to forget about the everyday stresses waiting back home. A week away gave us the chance to slow down, enjoy the atmosphere, and appreciate the simple pleasure of having nowhere particularly urgent to be.
Friday, 21 August 2026
Lisbon to Barcelona: Cruising through Iberia
This British territory had iconic red phone booths and red Royal Mail pillar boxes scattered along Grand Castmates Square.
Even though it wasn't quite noon, we stopped for a pint and fish and chips at Venture Inn. This Irish pub was welcoming, warm, and cozy, with Irish relics and memorabilia adorning the walls. Rugby played on a loop on the TV. There were seats outside, but as the establishment was on an incline, so were the seats, so we opted to sit inside (safer not to spill the drinks!).
Friday, 31 October 2025
Kirby
It's so hard to believe an entire year has passed. A total of 365 days without seeing you. Countless times I came into the house and was not greeted by you with a toy in your mouth. No longer sharing my bed each night with your warmth comforting me. You were such an integral part of my life for 14 years. You no longer being here just feels hollow; the pain in my heart is still present.
No other dog will ever be able to replace you. I miss you all the time, my sweet boy. I know you're with Mom, Pacey, and Lucy. While that provides some comfort, I wish you were still here with me.
You were the very best, Kirby. And because of that, you are greatly missed. XOXO
Tuesday, 26 August 2025
And Just Like That...It's Over
My friend Kate's student travelled to the U.S. in 2000 and was able to procure a box set of DVDs. We made plans to binge the entire season while sharing wine and pizza. As soon as we heard the opening static of the HBO intro, we were hooked. When the music cued up, we saw Sarah Jessica Parker walking the streets of New York in the most fabulous outfit, just before getting splashed by a bus with an ad for her own newspaper column.
Eventually, I would watch all six seasons and then watch the two movies that followed. The fashion, Cosmopolitans, and all the men and obstacles Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda went through made the viewer feel like they were right there along for the ride. It was sad to say goodbye to these characters when the show came to an end.
Then in 2021, HBO Max announced there would be a revival, And Just Like That..., with 3 of the 4 main characters returning. The show would take place 11 years after the movie Sex and the City 2, where we see the women navigating life in their 50s. While I was excited to see these women again, the 3 seasons of And Just Like That... didn't feel the same as the original. It was often too woke and cringey, and it felt like the characters were no longer the same women we once adored. The acting and writing were just bad, with huge gaps in the plot. If they had evolved as characters, it would have been fine, but it was as if they forgot who they were. The show was a disappointment, but I still hate-watched it faithfully. It wasn't the same without Kim Cattrall, and the writing fell short. On August 14th, after 27 years, we bid farewell to Carrie Bradshaw and the girls.I will return to the original series because it feels somewhat therapeutic and nostalgic witnessing these friends talk, laugh, fight, and love each other. It will remind me of my friend Kate, who is still living in Japan. I am grateful for this franchise. It taught women to have fun with fashion, to love themselves, and that life doesn't end at 30. I just think they deserved a better ending.
~MT
Tuesday, 29 July 2025
Come Sail Away
On July 13th, my sister and I boarded the Celebrity Solstice in Vancouver, B.C., setting sail to Alaska. Prior to this trip, I had only been on a 4-day cruise in Greece and Turkey. For months before the cruise, we did our homework and research, joining Celebrity and Alaska Facebook groups, which provided a plethora of tips on what to pack and what excursions to take. After a wonderful visit with family in B.C., we got dropped off at the Port of Vancouver, dumped our luggage, sailed through customs, and boarded the ship. Our room was almost ready, so we changed into our bathing suits and went exploring. It was a beautiful sunny day in B.C. We secured lounge chairs at the pool and dipped into the water. We spent the next few hours here until the ship set sail.
We were told to set our clocks back an hour that night, making it a 4-hour time difference.
ICY POINT STRAIT
We sailed the Inside Passage—a coastal waterway that spans 500 miles of pristine Alaskan wilderness. Our first stop was Icy Strait Point Hoonah, the only privately owned cruise port in Alaska. The word "Hoonah" means "where the north wind doesn't blow. " The town is only 7.3 square miles with a population of 765, being the home of the largest Tlingit community in Alaska.
Boarding a smaller boat, we embarked on a whale-watching excursion. Icy Point has one of the largest humpback whale populations. We spent a few hours navigating the area, cameras poised at the ready for when a whale would spout, then emerge. Seeing them in their natural habitat was majestic. We also spotted a dolphin and sea otters.
After the boat tour, we took the free gondola to Wilderness Landing. We feasted on reindeer chili and beer from the Alaskan Brewing Co. Both were delicious!
HUBBARD GLACIER

Creek Street is actually a boardwalk mounted on stilts on a high slope on the east side of Ketchikan Creek. This location was infamous as being the red-light district until 1954. The brothels were outlawed and shut down at that time. Numerous houses of prostitution sprang up supported by wooden stilts. Winding into the hills above Creek Street is Married Man's Way, a trail used by patrons of the brothels to escape raids.




























